How To Influence People To Unsubscribe
Author
Damon Cart
Date
Jul 30, 2018
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When is it okay to use your NLP skills and when is it not okay?
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Surprisingly, perhaps not so surprisingly several people unsubscribed from my Youtube channel and from this email list when I posted the video and sent the email about using NLP to meet women.
If you're reading this, that means you're probably not one of those people. However, I do want to address this further because even though I knew I was taking a risk I still find it perplexing that some people are offended to the point of unsubscribing.
Is it okay to use NLP in sales? With your coworkers? With your spouse? With your kids?
Most people would answer yes to all of these.
It's perfectly okay to use your NLP skills with these people and in these situations. In fact, many of you probably learned NLP or want to learn NLP specifically to use it with these people and in these situations.
So why is it, when NLP and dating are used in the same sentence people don't read the email, they don't watch the video, they just hit the unsubscribe button?
Getting what you want and the transformational process you go through to become the person who is, has, and does what you want is personal development and that includes dating and relationships.
Last year I was dating a woman who was a grade school teacher. (Yes, I approached her on the street, I got her number, and we started dating.)
When I told her that I used NLP to overcome the fear of approaching her and I had used it to connect with her, she was fascinated.
"Men are definitely in crisis these days," She said.
"What do you mean?" I asked.
"Most of them are lacking good role models, other men who will teach them how to be men, how to approach woman, and how to treat women."
She's right. Men, from the time they're boys, are told a lot about what they shouldn't do and what they're not supposed to do and very little about what they should do. They often don't have good examples to follow when it comes to dating in other words.
If anyone reading this finds it strange and abnormal to approach women in places like department stores, coffeeshops, or just about anywhere in public (where she feels safe), then where is a good place to approach women?
Is it better if men only approach women in bars and clubs after drinking?
Should we hide behind our phones and laptops trying to swipe our way to the right woman? Haven't we become depersonalized enough in this digital world we now live in?
Or are we supposed to wait until the right woman magically materializes because that's how it happens in the movies?
Well my life has never worked out like the movies and everything I've ever accomplished, earned, or deserved required initiative and taking action.
So why would anyone ever leave dating up to chance? Why is this subject so taboo that it causes people to shut themselves off from receiving free NLP content from me?
If we're not willing to have an adult conversation about this and we instead encourage men to be afraid to be who they really are and to suppress a desire that is as natural as hunger, there will continue to be misogyny. Men will continue to bully women and harass them sexually because they're not being taught how to connect with women.
If we continue to push this drive in men underground, it doesn't just go away. It will find a way to express itself.
Unfortunately porn addiction is on the rise not only because it's so accessible these days, but because men can watch it and get a false sense of sexual satisfaction with no one around to judge them for it.
This further isolates men from women.
There's a misogynistic movement of men called Incels (Involuntarily Celibate). One self-identified Incel was responsible for a recent mass shooting in the U.S. He wasn't the first mass shooter to cite women not paying any attention to him as the reason for his lashing out violently.
We are not helping people and society when we make normal human behavior like men desiring women not okay. The same goes for people of the same sex desiring each other. I don't mean to exclude gay people from the conversation.
I know this is a crazy idea, but maybe, just maybe, approaching a woman in the normal everyday world instead of a bar and instead of through the internet, might just be the most sane, civilized way to meet a woman and yet we treat it like it's deviant behavior.
Apparently, as a culture and perhaps even as an intelligent species, we still haven't gotten over our shame of being human and all the desires that go along with it.
If this is you and you think what I write here is perverted, unethical, immoral, etc. then very well, unsubscribe.
If not and you're a man wanting to overcome crippling approach anxiety once and for all and you want to start meeting and dating the women you're attracted to, here's your chance to preorder the course that will teach you how to overcome approach anxiety, approach and connect with any woman you desire.
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Damon Cart
NLP Coach and Trainer
Santa Cruz, California
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Damon Cart
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Damon Cart is considered to be a natural talent by some of the best NLP trainers in the world. His approach to guiding and teaching students brings to their awareness that they've been doing NLP all of their lives without realizing it and he empowers them with skills and resources to thrive and reach their full potential. With the understanding of how Neuro Linguistic Programs create oneβs experience a person can then take charge of those programs and create the experience and the life they want. By taking this approach into his own rigorous, daily NLP practice Damon has been able to rapidly accelerate his progress in learning, coaching clients and teaching workshops.
